SumitThis is the fear of failure, not the reality. This is fear that we may not be able to fully take and manage, but rather, we are afraid.
We’re afraid because when the things we do are successful or successful enough that we don’t try even harder, that is what we believe, and this is the reality.
Well, if the things we put into our work are successful, it’s pretty safe to say we wont always get that same success, and we better not be afraid of that because we can always make it better.
What’s scary about this idea is that it doesn’t exist in real life. That kind of uncertainty is the very reason companies want to build products or build a company. And they’re still afraid of failure.
In my experience, the first step in any project is to get the risk out of the door. You can’t just put it in the attic or put it in a drawer. If you think about it, we really should be able to talk about risks and successes in a more realistic way in our jobs.
For instance, every time I do a project I try to make it better. I try to make it better than it was the first time people walked through the door. I try to make it better than the first time we built it. In any case, I make my first step into the project a chance to be a better person than I was the first time. I want to make mistakes as rare as possible and try to take them as seriously as possible.
Sometimes the things that we do and can’t do are just plain silly. For instance, I’m a bit of a risk taker, but I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t be afraid to jump off a bridge (which I’ve done). I’ve also been known to run into things I shouldn’t have been in the first place (which I’ve done). It’s actually one of those life lessons that I’ve learned early on that I’ve never forgotten.
As we all know, I am a very risk taker. I like to try new things and have adventures. I also tend to do things that most people dont like doing and have to make an effort to try to change my ways. My favorite thing is to do things that most people dont like doing and have to make an effort to try to change my ways.
In a way, its like an oxymoron. I have a very large list of things I do not like doing and cannot change. I can however, change how I do things. In order to change, you have to think of all the ways things aren’t working for you. I am now more aware of all the things that most people don’t like doing and have to make an effort to change my ways.
The problem is that we can’t change if we don’t change the things that we are noticing. So the first step to change is to notice yourself. If you notice something, or if you see something, do something to change it. The more you notice, the more you will realize the things that you did not like and the more you will start changing.
